Showing posts with label retirement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label retirement. Show all posts

Protecting Survivorship Benefits

Have you considered what you would like to do in retirement? Most people leave their full-time jobs and move into a phase of life that is focused on relaxation, fulfillment, and leisure time.  

They often depend on retirement savings, pensions, and Social Security benefits to keep them financially stable. Most want to maintain their standard of living, include more travel, and do things they could not while they were working. Family time and quality relationships often become more important with many choosing to stay busy by doing volunteer work or going back to school. 

These were likely the same goals Bruce and Anne Freidman, a Brooklyn couple, had for their golden years. However, things did not quite work out that way for them. 

Why we wait to get our finances in order


Personal Money Planning has taken up a group virtual challenge. The task consists of running (or walking) a total of 1083 miles, which is the distance across the United Kingdom. As a team, we total our activities to accumulate the 1783km distance. Since Gary is really into running, and logs about 4,000 miles per day (well, not quite, but almost), he is pulling the rest of us along well. However, the competitive nature in me could not allow him to take full credit for getting us from Lands End to John O'Groats. Each day I have been logging a few miles myself. I’m just as determined to claim my medal as he is- 

The other morning, I was approaching my third mile when the temperature began to quickly rise. Since I was at the opposite end of my starting point, I had no other option but to continue my trek. As I was rounding the corner, a lady in a dark SUV drove by, looked at my red, sweaty face, and gave me an encouraging thumbs up. That doesn’t seem like much, but it gave me the enthusiasm I needed to make it the rest of the way.

Why is it that we often ignore or avoid the things we know are good for us, take for instance, exercising? 

Which Money Language Do You Speak?


Shark Tank star Robert Herjavec 
once said, “If you can’t speak money, you will be broke for the rest of your life”.   

So how exactly do you “speak money”? Money language is how you view money, and the understanding of how you use money to express yourself. Money is often cited as the number one reason couples argueThat’s because when it comes to financial mattersmany people don’t speak the same language. Learning to  understand your partner’s money language, fears, and goals could help minimize this dilemma.

 

Having an open and honest discussion about your differing financial viewpoints might seem treacherous at first, but by doing so it can add depth and perspective to the relationship. Since both perspectives are integral pieces in the joint financial journey, the collective input encourages an equal collaboration in working towards the same goals. 

Technology can improve a loved ones independence

What options do you have if an aging parent or loved one needs assistance but is not quite ready to move? Technology can be a great personal assistant.
With products like Samsung's wireless security cameras with two-way audio, you can periodically check in, and even talk with them, remotely. Alerts can be established and send notifications when activity happens based on set criteria. 


Spring cleaning your financial records


If you’re anything like me, spring cleaning is a welcome annual occurrence. Getting everything cleaned and organized gives me a sense of refresh and order. However, others may see this as more of a necessary evil. Regardless of your outlook on such tasks, when it comes to your financial documents, neglecting your annual financial “cleaning” could cost you more than a few extra dust bunnies.

How To Cheat (on your taxes) And Get Away With It


With tax filing season upon us, most of us are looking for ways to either reduce the taxes we’ll owe, or increase the refund we’ll receive.


One way to do this is to make a contribution to a Traditional IRA.


Contributing To An IRA
Making a contribution to a Traditional IRA is an excellent way to accomplish two goals. First, as long as your income and situation permits, you can claim a deduction for the contribution. The deduction ultimately reduces your adjusted gross income (AGI). This in turn lowers the amount you’ll be responsible to pay taxes on.

Expenses That Kill Your Finances


What are some expenses you may not realize that can kill your finances? You know, ones that sneak up on you, and keep you living paycheck to paycheck? I was recently asked this question and my recommendations on how to correct the problems. Here’s what I suggested…


Don’t pack on debt with the holiday pounds
An unintended budget killer I come across when working with clients is holiday spending. Not the obvious ones like Christmas and birthday gifts, but things like Thanksgiving and the Fourth of July. Many tend to think of holiday budget expenses in terms of gift giving. You know, a tangible item. The additional food expense that is required at these festive family events is often overlooked.

Should You Borrow From Your 401(k)?

It's Not A Loan

If you were wondering whether or not taking a loan against your 401(k) to pay off credit card debt makes sense, the answer is quite simple. Maybe…

Although it has been tagged with the term, accessing a portion of your 401(k) assets, and making payments to replenish that amount, is not truly a "loan". There are typically no credit checks, nor income requirements to qualify. If you have funds in your 401(k) account, odds are you have already been approved. That's why so many borrow against their retirement funds...its convenience and ease.

The Hamburger Loan Shark


I have been in the finance industry, in some fashion, for the majority of my life. However, my passion for playing with money began at a much younger age.


Growing up, my sister and I spent a lot of time at my grandparent’s house. We loved going there for a weekend sleepover, or even better, for weeks at a time throughout the summer. During our visits we were pampered, as grandchildren typically are, but my grandpa (“Papa”) also used the time to teach us some valuable lessons...how to get the best bang for your buck when shopping.

Who Gets Custody Of The Retirement Funds During A Divorce?


Like the car wreck you don’t want to look at, yet can’t turn away from--they are shocking, yet strangely intriguing.  No, I’m not talking about the leaked Ashley Madison hack list. I’m referring to the disturbing stories of financial burden imposed on those who have incorrectly distributed funds from a retirement fund due to a divorce.


Whether you’ve experienced it first hand, or been an innocent victim injured by verbal shrapnel, divorce can be a devastating event for any family. Not only can it fracture delicate relationships, it can also be financially debilitating for all of those involved. This is especially true if delicate care isn’t taken when it comes to the division of retirement assets.

The Baby Boomer Boomeranger: Adult Children Returning Home



Jeopardizing Your Retirement By Financially Helping Adult Children

As parents, we want to give our children more than what we were given growing up. Whether it’s the latest technology, the newest clothing trends, or the most memorable vacations. That’s human nature, and there’s nothing wrong with that. But at what point is it time to cut the financial umbilical cord?

The Boomeranger
One-third of baby boomers are still helping their adult kids in their 20’s and 30’s financially. Actually it appears many of these baby boomers gave birth to boomerangers…adult children returning home to live with their parents. Not only are these parents stuck covering the cost of a roof overhead, but at times also a cell phone, car payment, car insurance, and health insurance.

At what cost do these extra expenses have on the parents? More often than not, a hit to their retirement savings. Whether it’s less being put back, or funds being borrowed or disbursed, not as much is getting holed away.

Which Debt Should You Pay Off First?


When it comes to the best techniques and ideas for paying off debt, there are about as many out there as there are chocolate chip cookie recipes. And while it may take a few recipes until you find the tastiest one, finding the best fit for you when it comes to debt payoff may also take a few tries.


When you break it down, there are really three basic ways to pay off debt:

Wait, you bought what? Where? Taking online shopping to the next level...


Death is an awkward topic for many people. Let’s face it, most of us don’t like to discuss the inevitability of our own demise. It seems like talking about it is avoided almost as much as gluten these days. Yet it is something we will all eventually have to face.  


Timing is key
Expressing your wishes ahead of time relieves a great amount of stress from the family. It goes without saying that discussing funeral plans with someone in good health is much easier than with someone knocking on death’s door.


I remember all too well having the painful conversation with my late husband after he was diagnosed with a terminal and aggressive form of brain cancer. 

As luck would have it, we had the talk just a few months prior when discussing his mother’s future desires. However, the desires one has when they believe they have another forty or fifty years may end up changing when that time-frame decreases to forty or fifty days. This is where some of the confusion, and stress, can begin for the family.


Don't get buried by your debt~

A while back we had our male puppy, Kassel, “fixed”. I use the word “fixed” lightly, as I have since discovered this term is now politically incorrect. The more friendly term being used is “altered”, seeing as the word “fixed” implies that something was wrong with him to begin with. And although marking his territory may be construed as a natural display of dominance for some, I chose to “fix” the issue. The line was drawn when he “marked” my flip flops…

As we picked up our sweet little four pound ball of fur from the vet’s office, I felt a great sadness in my heart for what we chose to put him through. You see, not only did we have him neutered, but also elected to have five of his remaining puppy teeth pulled. In addition, he received his Parvo and Rabies vaccinations. Basically, he was “tore up from the floor up”…

Receiving free money can cost you a lot.




I tend to think of myself as a glass-half-full type of gal. I mean sure, I've had days where it seems like one thing after another, after another, after yet another has gone into the crapper, just like everyone else. And even though I've experienced my fair share of heartache over the years, I feel I've been dealt a pretty decent hand in life.

I try to pay it forward as best I can, whether by doing volunteer work or donating clothing and household goods to those less fortunate. I’ll even drop $1 into the glass jars while at the grocery store. And if a neighborhood kid is selling chocolate bars for a buck, heck, you better believe I’ll do my part. And it appears you guys are doing your part as well.

Grief and Compound Interest~ Time is the key.

Today I said something I never thought I would say… I said “it gets better over time”. I made this comment to my mom as she grieves over my aunt’s passing last week. 

Why was I so shocked these particular words came out of my own mouth? Because today also marks the date of Gerhard’s and my wedding anniversary.

I remember the empty feeling I had during those passing weeks and months after his death. I also remember thinking how stupid the morons telling me this same thing were. How could they possible understand what I was feeling? How could they guarantee things would get better over time? It all just sounded like some psycho-babble they had come up with because they couldn't think of anything else to say. Just some words to fill the dead air time in our conversation. I remember thinking what a crock of crap these few little words meant. Individually they were fine, but collectively, and forming this particular sentence, they sounded absurd. How could time possibly have any effect on the grieving of a loved one?

As time passed, however, things did get a little better each day. The crying fits became shorter in duration, and more spaced out in frequency. As more time passed I only got bummed out on the special occasions. It isn't that I have forgotten about Gerhard, or loved him any less, just that life goes on. My grieving would not bring him back, it was only holding me back.

As luck would have it, I found myself in the office this morning (I had taken this day off the last two years), not crying, not saddened, but thankful. Thankful for what I have, not remorseful for what I lost. So yes, I guess those morons were right… Time does make things better. I have moved on, found happiness again (at the time I thought was an impossible challenge), and am enjoying life. It was a valuable, yet slow and painful, lesson to learn.

How does this relate to the financial world? Easy. Both grief and compound interest take a positive turn over the long run. Before we get too far into this analogy, for those that don’t understand how compound interest works it’s pretty simple. It’s basically earning interest on top of interest you've already received. Let’s say you deposit money into an interest bearing account, then when you received the interest payment or dividends in that account you leave it alone. So instead of your initial deposit (let’s use $10,000 for this example), you now have $10,025. The next time the interest is calculated, the current balance of $10,025 is used instead of the initial $10,000. This continues to increase as time goes on.

What true effect does this have on an account? If someone placed $10,000 into an account earning 3.5% annually, with no additional funds being contributed, at the end of 20 years the account balance would be a little over $21,100. (There are plenty of financial calculators out there. I used TheCalculator Site).

Mind you, this calculation was done without any new contributions. Making bi-weekly, monthly, quarterly, or annual deposits to your account will have an even larger effect. 

So whether you have recently lost a loved one, or just looking to increase your portfolio value, time is the key. While it seems like the pain will never end, take it from this moron…it will.


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Dancing Around A Financial Crisis

About a year and a half ago I did a full remodel on my house. While it simply started with a cracked shower pan, it quickly turned in to new tiling, paint, carpeting in the bedrooms, knocking down some walls, putting up others, kitchen countertops, backsplash, and lastly new furniture. Yes, the remodel bug bit, and it bit hard. And while I absolutely love how everything turned out, it wasn’t the smooth sailing journey I had hoped for.

You see, after I tiled the living room areas it looked so amazing I decided to keep going into the kitchen and pantry areas. This is where things got a little interesting. As the workers were cutting into the baseboard where my washer and dryer are housed, they hit a line. The hot water line. As water came spewing out like a fire hydrant, the immediate need was to shut it completely off. 

This normally wouldn’t have been an issue, seeing as Gerhard (my late husband) had just about every tool ever made in the entire world, to include the big key "thingy" for the water main. However, with most of my furniture piled into the garage the height of Mt. Everest, getting to that particular area, and finding it, was an issue. So I did what any sane and partially rational person in this situation would, and ran out the front door to high tail it to my neighbor’s house.

As I exited onto the front porch, it dawned on me that the three inch snow covered ground and my flip flops weren’t the best match, but there was no time to reconsider my fashion choice. I needed the KEY. I frantically ran across the street, skidding meticulously like a cross country skier attempting to grab the gold (key that is). After clumsily falling twice, I finally made my way to the front door and began pounding. As my neighbor handed over the key, I began my trek back across the street, frozen toed, cold, and wet to save the day. However, there was one more little obstacle standing in my way…the location of the water main! Since I don’t think I have ever mowed the yard in my entire life (and for that matter don’t plan on starting), I wasn’t sure where the cover was. Neither did the three guys laying the tile.

Since water was still gushing out, now pooling in my garage, we made a game plan to have one of the guys stay back and continue to sweep it out until we could shut it off. Yes, my mountain of furniture was in dire jeopardy at this point. The two other guys, Keith, and I decided to clear the snow from the front yard by doing a technique I like to refer to as the penguin on crack cocaine dance… You start with your head down staring at the ground, heels together, toes pointed outwards, and move each foot forward one at a time as quickly as possible, while still keeping your heels pointed inwards, to clear the maximum amount of area in the shortest amount of time. After clearing almost the entire yard, it wasn’t until we made our way to the little strip of land between the street and sidewalk did we find what we were looking for. We turned the water off, called a plumber to fix the damage, and all was well. (Since I haven’t seen this video on YouTube just yet, I am confident the slow moving vehicles coming down the street were simply being cautious due to the icy roads, and we were NOT hindering them in any way with our dance).

How does this relate to financial planning? Pretty simple actually… You see, acting quickly in the face of adversity is the key to limiting the potential negative effect it can produce.

Let’s take, for example, being laid off work for a period of time. Let’s face it, even though you may be able to claim unemployment, it mostly likely won’t be the amount you’re used to bringing home. If it’s a short period of time, like a month or so, and you are given a chance to plan for it, you can contact your financial institutions to make arrangements for any payments you owe.

Let’s look at a vehicle loan for example… Most institutions are willing to work with you if you’re upfront with them, are current on your payments, and don’t consistently make your payments late. They simply have you sign a form (some do not even require this) to tack the payment to the end of the loan. This means you can skip the payment one month, and add an additional month to the end of the loan period. So instead of paying your car off in 60 months, it will be 61 months (but still only 60 payments, plus any accrued interest during the month “break” you were given).

Credit cards can work a little differently. Often times they will arrange for you to make a double payment the next month, while waiving the late fee. However, if you make late payments frequently, they may not provide you this option.

Concerned about a mortgage or rent payment? That’s even a little trickier. Postponing a mortgage/rent payment is not typical for a financial institution or landlord, and late fees are frequently not waived. Asking never hurts though… If delaying payment isn’t an option, you can possibly offset this by making a call to your various utility companies. Often times they have lower late payment fees than most of your creditors, and may allow you to make a partial payment without leaving you in the dark.

Taxes. ‘Nuf said… Before you find yourself in another bind come April 15th, make sure to either have taxes taken out of your unemployment check, or stash back enough to cover what you may owe. IRS penalties are brutal, and while your electric company doesn’t have the authority to garnish your wages, the IRS can levy a tax lien against you.

Still unable to meet your obligations? As a last measure, if you participate in a 401k through your employer you may be able to take a loan. Ask your account administrator (usually the Human Resource Department) about your options.


Making contact with your creditors and explaining your situation as soon as possible is always a good idea. In most of these cases, asking for forgiveness instead of permission will only leave you out in the cold frantically looking for a solution. I assure you, you probably won’t be dancing.

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